Can a man’s Biological clock really tick?
As a young man you may start to have feelings towards girls, but the thought of permanence never really crosses your mind. As you get older you start to experience longer term and more realistic viewpoints of relationships, but those viewpoints are still not primed for adult hood. Into your twenties you experience heart ache a few times and you may lose hope of actually finding the one you may spend the rest of your life with.
As you go through your twenties you start to see your friends getting married, having children and you feel a false sense of freedom and liberation. This feeling of freedom and liberation come with the facts that you can go and do whatever you want like bars, clubs, and all of the other places a man can fill his security with an experience with a female counterpart. In some cases you may be really good looking and have this false sense of security with all of the attention you receive. If you are insecure you may think the opportunity will never occur, resulting
in never putting yourself out there enough to actually see what you will find with the opposite sex.
Once you hit your thirties and you see your married friends enjoying life and their journey through it together. You reflect and start to think… Will I ever get married? My relationships never work out; maybe it’s just not meant to be. When will I meet the one? If you are in anyway identifying with this, then you may know what I am talking about or have had similar feelings. The question I ask is what is the right age to have children or is there one? Many wait till college is over, or some get busy real quick and have children in their early twenties. There is just something that comes over you when you hit your thirties, that says OMG I don’t want to be alone for the rest of my life! You may develop a sense of urgency where you start turning a new relationship into a projection of expectations, based on your own fears and insecurities; therefore ruining a relationship that may have been that one. Instead of allowing the energy of the universe to let it happen in its own time, you start to force your will upon it and you wake up in an unhappy relationship or divorced.
I have spoken to a lot of my single friends in their thirties and they all think the same thing, “Am I going to be alone for the rest of my life?” Let’s be honest woman if you are reading this, this can also describe you… Ultimately, it is not in the cards for everybody to be married with children, but you begin to think of what it would be like to have some children or a child. Would it be a boy or a girl? Would I make a good father? These are all things that naturally run through a man’s mind at some point in their late twenties and early thirties.
So even though women do have completely different body chemistry then men, I feel that for a lack of a better way of explaining it; Men do develop a “ticking biological clock.” Men in some cases have the same wants and needs woman do, but men and in some cases woman have issues with communicating these feelings and expressing their emotions with their partners. This sometimes causes a relationship to fail. The feeling could be described as an almost “impending doom” of thinking that you will never find the one…
My advice is to see what you might be able to do to better yourself for the woman that comes along if they are not already right in front of your face. Woman love when you are more centered then them and they feed off of a man’s strength in some cases. Weakness is fear and should never be mistaken for sensitivity….